We had the opportunity to connect with Charla Hamilton, a 2010 graduate of the JIW program, to learn more about her journey since completing the program. Today, she works as a registered nurse in labor and delivery and has earned her Master’s degree in Midwifery. As she prepares for her midwifery board exams, Charla reflects on her time in JIW and shares advice for young girls considering the program.

First and last name?

Charla Hamilton 

Profession?

 I am a registered nurse in labor and delivery.

 I recently graduated with a Master’s degree in Midwifery and am currently studying for a midwifery board exam. 

Year Graduated from JIW? 2010

What is one of your favorite JIW memories? 

One of my favorite memories I have from JIW was the banquet. It was such a special experience to showcase my own talents while also seeing the talents of the other girls in front of our parents, community members, and friends. It was a wonderful evening where we could all dress up, celebrate each other, and enjoy a memorable time together.

Do you have any words for young girls today (in general and related to why they should consider the JIW program)?

 I would tell young girls today to stay open to opportunities that push you outside of your comfort zone, even if they feel unfamiliar at first. You never know what experience, connection, or moment might shape your future.

Programs like JIW are so valuable because they provide exposure to things you may not otherwise experience—whether that’s college tours, networking, leadership development, or simply building confidence in who you are. JIW was an excellent program for me because it opened my eyes to new possibilities and helped me grow both personally and academically.

I would encourage any young girl to consider JIW for the valuable lifelong skills, friendships, and memories you gain from it. It’s an opportunity to invest in yourself early—and that’s something that always pays off.

 Do you have a favorite moment or story about your time at JIW?

One of my favorite moments from my time at JIW was definitely the college tours. I always knew I wanted to go to college, but actually visiting different campuses made everything feel real. It helped me narrow down my choices and envision what my future could look like. It also gave me the chance to bond with the other girls—we learned, laughed, and created memories that I still carry with me.

What’s something you’ve learned from being a mother to your boys that you think could help other new moms?

One of the biggest things I’ve learned from being a mom to my boys is that flexibility is everything. You can read all the books, make all the plans, and still have to adjust in real time—and that’s okay. Learning to trust myself and respond to my babies instead of constantly questioning if I’m doing it “right” has made such a difference.

I’ve also learned that you don’t have to do it all to be a good mom. Rest matters, asking for help matters, and taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your babies. When you’re supported and well, you show up better for them.

To other new moms, I would say: give yourself grace. Every baby is different, every day looks different, and you’re learning just as much as your baby is. There’s no perfect way to do this—but if you’re showing up with love, you’re already doing an amazing job.

Author: Valentina R.